那日陪孩子去沈老师的新画室，干净，美。小岛才刚会走路，两人授课，做参展项目，生活也是繁忙，有一阵甚至乳腺炎都拖着不去看病，然而逐步逐步地改善，将旧画室换地方重新来过。
想了很久，曾经不也是向往这样的么？太不讲究了。其它都是借口。
不能总是拖拉。
此前去鱼板的高档衬衫聚会捧场，他指着美轮美奂匠心独特的友人制作糕点感慨，女人就该这样生活啊。虽然不以为然，确实觉得也很精美。
去年在维也纳和Georg谈工作，开始先闲话家常，那日他刚和女儿交谈，正是她第一段关系确立时，他为她高兴。说起如今周围越来越多母亲全职回归家庭，他摇头：别，相信我，那些都是繁忙乏味重复的日常，其实对女性不利，没有发展她的才能。

razor's edge

For men and women are not only themselves; they are also the region in which they are born, the city apartment or farm in which they learnt to walk, the games they played as children, the old wives tales they overheard, the food they ate, the schools they attended, the sports they followed, the poets they read, and the God they believed in. It is all these things that have made them what they are, and these are the things that you can't come to know by hearsay...

have to get an English version. Translation is an issue. And it is also mentioned there is a story based on Thomas Hardy...interesting.